There’s a quiet kind of magic in motherhood.
The way we notice everything — the flicker in our child’s eyes when they’re overwhelmed, the small victories no one else sees, the late-night worry that settles into the creases of our hearts.
And yet… how often do you feel truly seen?
The Invisible Weight We Carry
As mothers — especially mothers of neurodivergent children — we carry a thousand tiny things at once. Appointments. Meltdowns. Routines. Guilt. Joy. Fear. Laundry. All of it.
We show up with calm voices when we feel like screaming.
We stay patient when we’re touched out and tired.
We become the experts, the therapists, the advocates, the anchors.
But somewhere in all that showing up… we can disappear.
You're Not Just the Glue — You're a Whole Person
At FluffyGlowfish, this isn’t just a brand — it’s a piece of our heart. Born from the love of a mama who wanted better bath times, calmer evenings, and a little sparkle in the chaos.
And we want to remind you:
You are not just a support act in someone else’s story.
You are a whole story of your own.
Your needs matter. Your dreams matter.
Your overwhelm is valid.
And your joy — not just your child’s — is worth chasing.
Let This Be Your Permission Slip
💗 Take the bath first.
💗 Leave the mess for a moment and step outside for fresh air.
💗 Tell your partner, your friend, your child: “I need a moment.”
💗 Wear the dress. Eat the snack. Put on the glittery nail polish.
💗 Say no without explaining. Say yes to something just because it makes you feel alive.
You don’t have to wait until everyone else is settled to take care of yourself. You don’t have to shrink to hold space for others.
The Ripple Effect
Here’s the truth: when you care for yourself, you don’t take away from your family — you strengthen it.
When your child sees you choosing rest, boundaries, and joy… they learn to do the same.
They learn that love includes the self.
So to every mama reading this:
You deserve to be seen. Fully. Tenderly. Without needing to prove your worth.
You’re not alone in this journey. And we see you. 💕
Best Wishes
Samantha Joubert